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Mar. 9th, 2014 05:31 am* "A Russian Info-War Is Under Way in Crimea :" http://www.technologyreview.com/news/525336/watching-for-a-crimean-cyberwar-crisis/
* It is easy to be well meaning but still do Aid wrong. "The Great Penguin Sweater Fiasco:" http://www.giantflightlessbirds.com/2011/10/the-great-penguin-sweater-fiasco/
* "Navy will deploy first ship with laser weapon this summer:" http://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2014/03/navy-will-deploy-first-ship-with-laser-weapon-this-summer/
* "GOP focus on shaming those in need:"
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* On the Demonization of Defense Attorneys. "Open letter to Sen. Heitkamp:"
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* "Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court: Upskirt photos not illegal under state law:" http://www.masslive.com/news/boston/index.ssf/2014/03/massachusetts_upskirt_photo_court_ruling.html
* "Six abortion providers left in all of Texas:"
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* "Anti-abortion movement's extreme 'soldiers':"
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* "Measuring Atmospheric Pressure on Exoplanets:" http://www.centauri-dreams.org/?p=30118
* "Told Y'all Conservafools Don't Care About Non-White Americans:" http://www.transgriot.blogspot.com/2014/03/told-yall-conservafools-dont-care-about.html
* "Needless 911: Can't Get This Jacket Off and I'm Pissed About It!:" http://www.loweringthebar.net/2014/03/cant-get-jacket-off.html
* "Can We Learn About Privacy From Porn Stars?:" http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/09/opinion/sunday/can-we-learn-about-privacy-from-porn-stars.html?hp&rref=opinion&_r=0
One of the reasons I didn't crash and burn in the period when I was locally counter culture famous in Eugene, when so many of my friends in a similar position over the years did, is because I always separated my person from my persona. There was the person with friends and a private life and the Persona based on that which I trotted out regularly for the Gothlings that I had attracted into orbit. I slept with friends, but I never slept with groupies sand was extremely careful to use the power that came with my popularity for their benefit and not my own. Public appearances were always on my terms. Others of my friends let would be followers call them at home at all hours. Others of my friends let the wall between public and private crumble and burn out. Unethical people used the power that people gave them for personal gain. I found these people despicable. It likely helped that I was profoundly uncomfortable with that sort of power. I talked to them about ethical systems and finding an ethical path that worked for them instead of giving them the Answer they so often sought. I modelled for them an alternative adulthood, as many of them had crap parents and no real direction. I did encourage them to stay in school, to keep their options open, to take a break from the drugs or at least cut back. Sometimes I talked them down when the pressure was getting to much. Sometimes I hooked them up with resources like the food bank, youth homeless shelter, social services, etc..
There is no way in hell I could do that free 24/7. I gave them what I could and tried to steer them away from gurus including me. I maintained a complex social life in my private space with a host of friends and lovers who were peers, while maintaining a scary high grade point average, and doing my part for the Goth community and the homeless or semi-homeless kids my events and visibility attracted.
I never let their image of me become me. I never forgot to leave space for my private life, and when I was done, I was able to walk away whole.
* A Modest Proposal. "Flash War:" https://medium.com/the-nib/ff551f568d0f
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* It is easy to be well meaning but still do Aid wrong. "The Great Penguin Sweater Fiasco:" http://www.giantflightlessbirds.com/2011/10/the-great-penguin-sweater-fiasco/
* "Navy will deploy first ship with laser weapon this summer:" http://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2014/03/navy-will-deploy-first-ship-with-laser-weapon-this-summer/
* "GOP focus on shaming those in need:"
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* On the Demonization of Defense Attorneys. "Open letter to Sen. Heitkamp:"
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* "Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court: Upskirt photos not illegal under state law:" http://www.masslive.com/news/boston/index.ssf/2014/03/massachusetts_upskirt_photo_court_ruling.html
* "Six abortion providers left in all of Texas:"
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* "Anti-abortion movement's extreme 'soldiers':"
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* "Measuring Atmospheric Pressure on Exoplanets:" http://www.centauri-dreams.org/?p=30118
* "Told Y'all Conservafools Don't Care About Non-White Americans:" http://www.transgriot.blogspot.com/2014/03/told-yall-conservafools-dont-care-about.html
* "Needless 911: Can't Get This Jacket Off and I'm Pissed About It!:" http://www.loweringthebar.net/2014/03/cant-get-jacket-off.html
* "Can We Learn About Privacy From Porn Stars?:" http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/09/opinion/sunday/can-we-learn-about-privacy-from-porn-stars.html?hp&rref=opinion&_r=0
One of the reasons I didn't crash and burn in the period when I was locally counter culture famous in Eugene, when so many of my friends in a similar position over the years did, is because I always separated my person from my persona. There was the person with friends and a private life and the Persona based on that which I trotted out regularly for the Gothlings that I had attracted into orbit. I slept with friends, but I never slept with groupies sand was extremely careful to use the power that came with my popularity for their benefit and not my own. Public appearances were always on my terms. Others of my friends let would be followers call them at home at all hours. Others of my friends let the wall between public and private crumble and burn out. Unethical people used the power that people gave them for personal gain. I found these people despicable. It likely helped that I was profoundly uncomfortable with that sort of power. I talked to them about ethical systems and finding an ethical path that worked for them instead of giving them the Answer they so often sought. I modelled for them an alternative adulthood, as many of them had crap parents and no real direction. I did encourage them to stay in school, to keep their options open, to take a break from the drugs or at least cut back. Sometimes I talked them down when the pressure was getting to much. Sometimes I hooked them up with resources like the food bank, youth homeless shelter, social services, etc..
There is no way in hell I could do that free 24/7. I gave them what I could and tried to steer them away from gurus including me. I maintained a complex social life in my private space with a host of friends and lovers who were peers, while maintaining a scary high grade point average, and doing my part for the Goth community and the homeless or semi-homeless kids my events and visibility attracted.
I never let their image of me become me. I never forgot to leave space for my private life, and when I was done, I was able to walk away whole.
* A Modest Proposal. "Flash War:" https://medium.com/the-nib/ff551f568d0f
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