(no subject)

[gwydion]

We've collected several new readers, so I thought I'd mention the basics.

The 411 on the gender stuff is in my profile. I'm fine with questions. If I don't want to answer, Ill just say that, but I figure better me than someone who's sensitive about it.

I don't want or expect people to agree with me on everything. Similarly, I'm far from perfect. If I fuck up, go ahead and call me on it. Debate is welcome in the comments, but keep it friendly.

What's up with the bad typo days and random stupid errors? I have trouble with fine muscle control due to a degenerative genetic condition. It's hard for me to catch because I'm not always aware my fingers aren't following the directions my brain sent. I keep an eye out, but weirdness creeps in. Yes, this is also what's up with my legs. Some days are better than others.

Yes, I'm an asshole. I'm okay with that.

Again, feel free to ask me nosy questions, I generally don't mind.

Comments

[yaseen101.livejournal.com]

I'm normally the one *to* friend and not the one to get friended, aside from a few a instances that is. Though, I don't mind if people do friend me; the more the merrier after all. I'm curious; why did you friend me?

[gwyd.livejournal.com]

I went through the list of folks coming in from neo_prodigy's blog. Those of you with an lj, I checked out profiles and the most recent page of entries. This is what I do whenever I notice new people wander in. Y'all seemed okay, so I friended you. I've found some pretty interesting people over the years that way.

[il-volpe.livejournal.com]

Heh. You're not much of an asshole. You're blunt and you're not afraid to say what you need, or ashamed of it. It's nice, really. I remember thinking, when I was helping you recover from your surgery, that it was nice -- Oh, hey, I don't have to guess if I am fucking this up or if I need to be doing something else, because zie will just /tell/ me. How relaxing...

[gwyd.livejournal.com]

I find saying what you need/don't want saves everyone time and hassle. I expect it helps having been in a relationship with a person with aspergers for three years. asking him to read my mind would have been like asking cats to fly. I find it simplifies things for neurotypical folks too. People are generally not as good at mind reading as most people want them to be. Better to just give each other permission to speak out right, amnd work from there. so much more sensible and relaxing for all involved. ;)